Sir!

Mr Teo elaborated: "Make good soldiers out of them. Help them understand the importance of having a strong defence for Singapore, and build their belief in what they are doing. Be their guide, friend and mentor. But do not take their respect and loyalty for granted. You will have to earn it. The best way to lead is by example.

"Whatever you say to them, the men and women under you will take dressing from what you do. What you expect them to do, you yourself must first be prepared to do. Train them well and push them hard, for this is the best way to give them the confidence that they will accomplish their mission and return home safely.

"Look after them and always have their safety at heart, so that they will follow you in the face of danger, knowing that you will do your best to lead them back safely again. Your actions, more than your words, will determine whether they will trust and follow you."

Wow.....hope such people exist......cos i sure as hell haven't met anyone like that.